It is that time of year when we turn our minds to all the good things that we have and that we have received.  It is a time to give thanks for all that–as is good and right.

The other day I was asked what I was thankful for.  My answer surprised me.

I first said, “Pain.”  It makes me aware that I’m alive and that my body is functioning properly.  Without pain we would soon be in deep trouble.  For me pain has been a constant companion for some years.  I even use the Latin motto, “Dolore ergo sum.”  It means, “I hurt, therefore I am.”

My second response was, “Failures and bad decisions.”  From those I have gained knowledge and learned wisdom.

When I was younger, I would not have seen pain and failure as things to be glad about.  Perhaps surviving them is what it takes.  It took me nearly eight decades to gain that outlook.  Perhaps it can only be had when one is able to look back over a long path.

I’m thankful that my basic physical needs are met.  That I have Sylvia at my side, and we have a great family in whom we take great pride.  We also enjoy our faith and faith community and the wonderful circle of friends that surround us.  If you are reading this, you are one of those.