Awards Received

A lot of things have been happening here. It has been difficult to keep up with all of it. A couple of awards have been extended to this blog, and I’ve been slow to acknowledge them. So, let me first thank my special friend, Cacai. She has passed along the 2009 Friendly Blogger Award.

I’m passing this friendly award to:
Shinade
Clara
Lin
Julieta
Vanilla
Colleen

The Passionate Blogger Award has been granted to Secondary Roads by Clara. Is it nepotism that she has given this to her favorite (make that “only”) brother? We share a passion for communicating ideas and special moments with our friends in the blogosphere.


This fine award is given in recognition of the efforts by:

Caregiving Daughter (her mother is going through what my mother endured)
Rita T
Julieta
Ida
Sharkbytes

Jill and Justine you are both friendly and passionate so these are for you two. You can fight over them, share them or both claim them and get on with your interesting lives.

Friends ~ An Award to Receive and to Share

I was recently granted this attractive award by my friend Rita T. It is attractive for two reasons, it is pleasant to the eye, and it is an expression of a personal connection. I thank you Rita. You have become a very good friend. The award comes with these words:

“These blogs are exceedingly charming. These kind bloggers aim to find and be friends. They are not interested in self-aggrandizement. Our hope is that when the ribbons of these prizes are cut, even more friendships are propagated. Please give more attention to these writers. Deliver this award to eight bloggers who must choose eight more and include this cleverly-written text into the body of their award.”

It is difficult, but I chose:
Mikki

Reggie
Lin
Caregiving Daughter
Jackie
Julieta
Vanilla
Meghan

There are other friends out there, some of them I have yet to meet. Thanks to these friends. They are all special people.

Another Award Received

I have been given the Marie-Antoinette award by my friend Lin at Duck and Wheel with String. In making that award, she said, “I have decided to share this award with fellow bloggers who show courage and a wicked, sometimes dark, sense of humor. I think they will find some pleasure in receiving an award named after a strong, brave woman who held her head high her whole life, all the way to the guillotine . . .”

Here are the rules for this award:
1. Please put the logo on your blog.
2. Link to the person from whom you received the award.
3. Nominate at least 7 or more other blogs.
4. Put the links of those blogs on your blog.
5. Leave a message on their blogs to tell them.

For that wicked, sometimes dark, sense of humor and for that held high on the way to the guillotine it would have to be:

The Humor Smith — This guy is wicked funny! I suspect he is man enough to accept this award in the spirit in which it is granted.

Justine & Jill — I had to put these two sisters on the same line. They’ll probably still squabble over the order of their names. (I was tempted to link Jill’s blog to Justine’s name and vice versa.)

The image that we associate with Marie Antoinette is of a beautiful woman, refined and with impeccable taste. In that spirit, for style and elegance one blogger comes quickly to mind:

Mandy Harvey — her work and her blog speak for themselves.

Marie Antoinette was 14-years-old when she left her home in Austria to marry the crown prince of France. That takes courage. It was a few years later that the marriage was consummated. Her husband was the kind of guy who spent a lot of time “off with the boys.” More courage needed. Came the revolution and her husband, the king, was beheaded. She was separated from her children. She was falsely accused of many heinous acts, and 9 months after her husband’s death, she went to the guillotine.

Toward the end she is said to have said, “Courage! I have shown it for years; think you I shall lose it at the moment when my sufferings are to end?” For courage in their life situations these three receive the award:

Cacai — Has already received the award. This is further recognition of her courage.

Ev — You are an inspiration. Best wishes on your book project.

Clara — Quietly has her own struggles. She faces them with courage, determination and optimism.

One of these last three recently received this award from another source and confided that she was reluctant to place it on her blog. “Marie-Antoinette was unengaged, haughty and aloof” was the reason given. Out of curiosity, I did some further research into the life and time of Marie Antoinette. I came away with a different opinion.

She probably did not say, “Let them eat cake,” when told that the people had no bread to eat.

Her last words reportedly were, “Pardon me Sir, I meant not to do it,” to a man whose foot she stepped on before she was executed by guillotine. Gives you a different picture than the one that is so popularly held, doesn’t it?

As someone recently said, “It’s good to win. The winners get to write the history.” Don’t you think they demonized this woman? Keep that in mind the next time you have an unkind thought about this emperor’s daughter who left home and family at a young age and found a life that was difficult and short.

Congratulations to the winners with thanks to all of them for being part of my life.

There is no significance to the fact that today is Friday the thirteenth. Or is there?

Recognition ~ Thanks & Awards

Thanks to all my regular visitors. You’ve been a big encouragement to me. You have left your comments and some of you have entered into private communications with me. It has been great to get to know you and to appreciate you.

Special thanks to top Entrecard droppers. I recognize you daily in the dropaholics list in the left-hand column. Your regular visits are most welcome.

Thanks Lin for this Lemonade Award.


If life hands you lemons, make lemonade. That’s the idea behind this. Ever the party girl, Lin is having a party and I don’t want to miss it. If I fall nod off, can I sleep on your couch?

I’m passing the Lemonade Award on to some folks who have been handed lemons in their lives. Rather than sucking on those lemons and being sour pusses, they have made their own brand of lemonade. Hats off and a bow to:

The care-giving daughter: Her mother is suffering from Alzheimer’s. My mother went through that. It is a difficult situation for a person to deal with. She has, and she has shared it with us.

Reggie Girl at Midlife, menopause, mistakes and random stuff…: has come out of a difficult past and is building a better life for herself and those she holds dear. Steady on . . .

The Lyoness at Ex-Mormon Stories: has made a break with family traditions and is forging new frontiers in her life. Having found that she is not alone, she is encouraging others. Think of this as recognition to you for the hope you bring to others.

Jill at Jill’s Believe It Or Not: Once a troubled youth, she is now wife and mother to great daughters. Very creative and funny, she proves that the past doesn’t have to be an anchor to hold you back.

Let these examples encourage you to make lemonade.

A Couple of Recent Awards ~ Thanks

Joy is where you find it. Open your eyes and look. Even here in western Michigan where winter skies are frequently lead-gray for days on end, the motives for joy abound. The crunch of snow beneath one’s feet. The cat that rubs against your leg or that finds a dry spot to catch the weak rays of the winter sun. A feeder filled with birds. The snow plow that clears the road. Sally who delivers the mail with a grin and a wave. Don’t be gloomy Gus. Even on the cloudy days, above those clouds the sun is shining.

Thanks to Colleen at Life is . . . for this lovely award.

Colleen made the award to all who visited her blog that day. I usually do. And so, in the same spirit in which it was given, I pass it on to you who will scatter sunshine to those about you.

This Blog Love award comes from Clara at Coming Back to Life.


Here are the rules:
* When you receive the Blog Love award, you should place the logo on your blog proudly!
* Link to the blogger that awarded you the love
* Nominate your friends and bloggers you read regularly, as many as you like
* Finally, let them know you’ve nominated them to receive the award

I am officially passing on a little Blog Love to the following:

Rita at Writing With Wings and Following 31

Jill at Jill’s Believe It Or Not

Justine at Tiney’s Froggy Bloggy

Now, go have a great day.

A Fabulous Honor

I have been given a great honor by a gal who has become a friend. Her name is Jill, and I’ll tell you more about her in a bit.

I had to read her posting three times before I could believe it, but her blog is Jill’s Believe It Or Not. Please understand that the picture on the badge doesn’t look a bit like me — not even a little bit. Well I do have two arms and two legs, a torso, neck and head, but that’s as far as it goes.

The rules are simple. Name five things to which I am addicted. And five Blogs that I think are fabulous.

My Five Addictions:

Family

That starts with my wife of 47 years, Sylvia. She is the center of my world. I think I got in trouble last night, when I told her, “You are just like a bad habit. I couldn’t drop you if I wanted to. And I don’t!” She gave me “the look” until we both dissolved in laughter. She taught me that I have to be comfortable in my own skin before I can build a strong relationship with another person.

Then come our two sons, Bryant and Scott. Scott, the younger, is retired after 21 years in the US Air Force. He explained what he did with these words, “I can tell you exactly what I do Dad, but then I’d have to kill you.” (Do you wonder where he gets that sense of humor?) Sunday evenings I call Scott and we talk on the phone for an hour, and it’s not unusual for us to go for more than three hours. Most weeks we see Bryant at lunch in Grand Rapids. We spend about an hour together catching up on family news and enjoying being together.

Bryant’s wife, Barbara, and daughter, Briana, are frequent topics of our conversations and join us when they can. We love being with them.


Observing Life and Solitary Time

I think it started when I was a youngster. As part of WWII pilot training, my dad had studied weather. We used to go out and watch weather fronts as they moved in. It was fun! Later, I took notice of other things in the sky. The position and changes in the sun, moon and stars. Yet later, it became interesting to watch people and the things they do and say.



It takes time to think about things. I like being creative, and that requires time without distraction. Time alone is like silver and gem stones. Okay, being with family is like gold and diamonds.


Words

I am addicted to words and their usage. That’s why I write haikus and love to blog.


My Toys

These last two came after a discussion with Sylvia. I am addicted to my computers (there are many), radios (not quite as many) and my tractor. Sylvia calls my John Deere a toy, but to me it’s one of the most useful tools I have.


Food

This again came from Sylvia (see my top-most addiction). Her logic? You need it to live. Right? I’ve learned not to argue with a woman — especially if I’m married to her. She also hastened to observe that my favorite food is pernil (garlic roasted pork). Right she is! The picture (above) is of pernil Ecuadorian style. Also on the plate are: potatoes, onion, tomato, parsley, ripe (yellow) plantain, and salsa. Yum. Yum.

Five Fabulous Blogs

Here are my Fab Five:

Clara @ Coming Back to Life — She’s my sister and has helped me get this blog going and to get it known. She’s a real “what you see is what you get” kind of person. Honest, open and, like her brother, just a bit “nerdy.” Gotta love her!

Mikki @ Here’s What Let’s do Next — She’s Clara’s daughter and I enjoy reading about her life and family. She has fought a battle with celiac disease and has been sharing that story. (Makes me glad that my only food allergy is to chicken and turkey.) She’s a bit whacky — wonder where that comes from?

Jill @ Jill’s Believe It Or Not — This gal is very creative and has a wonderful sense of humor. I love reading about and seeing photos of her two charming daughters, Alexa and Gianna. She also has good taste in music.

Ida @ Losing Myself — Ida relates her personal experiences and gives some good advice for folks trying to lose weight. (I’m sure it would be very helpful if I’d only follow it.) Interestingly, she is in a Southern Baptist church. I remember when we moved to Connecticut. I prayed, “Oh Lord, help us find a good church. Please don’t let it be a Southern Baptist Church.” Most of you are wise enough to know that I did the wrong thing. We spent 20 years in Southern Baptist churches (mostly Hispanic). I knew I’d like Ida. She’s another good friend.

The Humor Smith Chronicle — This guy is hilarious! I’m still laughing from his last post when the next one appears. Perhaps I enjoy this so much because I have a certain twist in my personality. Where did you get that picture for “Sway Back?” That’s too good.

There they are. My Fab Five. Thank Jill. Sorry this post is so long, but I had to put all those pictures in. I learned that from Jill. It’s all her fault. 😉