Good News ~ Bad News


First the good news. My sister, Clara, has started a new blog. It is called My Meme Mania. Sound interesting? Check it out. There are those times, when we need an idea to use for the next post on our blogs. Memes are an answer. And Clara has the provided the place to find them.

Way to go Sis. I’m sure it will be a great success. We’ll be watching for your return to the EC world too.

In keeping with her new blog, she has also started a new meme, which she has titled, “I Did It – Monday.” Read details here. This one looks it should be a lot of fun. I hope to see that you’ve visited Clara, and I’m looking for to what you did.

The Bad News

Recently I’ve started exchanging EC drops with Jamie at Comatised. I spent Wednesday afternoon listening to songs trying to find one appropriate to post here this Memorial Day weekend. I was feeling sad and melancholy as I remembered the family members who had served and paid the ultimate price. Then I went back to returning EC drops, and that brought me to Jamie’s blog. The post title was, “No Words.” What could this be about? I started to read, “I woke up an hour ago to the awkward silence all through the house. I’d fallen asleep in tears sometime around 3am, to the sound of Pogo’s raspy breathing, remembering her last day.

Jamie is a young mother, and she was reporting the passing of her ten-year-old daughter, Pogo. I so wanted to post a comment, but knew that I could not. My sons, now in their 40s are healthy and happy. Her wonderful daughter is no longer with her. Her post title, “No Words” told how she felt, but it is also good advice to me. If I could, I would sit with her and help her weep, for it is now time to do that.

If you will, say a prayer for Jamie and her family. Thanks.

A Strange Connection

Do recognize that symbol? It is identified with a group of German immigrants that are commonly referred to as the Pennsylvania Dutch. Both Sylvia and I are descended from these folk.

After retirement, I set out to learn more about my ancestors, and those of Sylvia. It was part of a project that I was doing for our granddaughter, Briana.

I used Rootsweb for searching out family connections. Later, I joined Ancestory.com. Other family members held pieces of the puzzle that began to come together to form a picture of what was up our family tree.

And then came the day when I made an amazing discovery. Sylvia and I had come from Pennsylvania Dutch families through the maternal grandmothers of our maternal grandmothers. I found that interesting. As I traced those family lines back, I found that they started in Switzerland. One family in Bern, the other in Zurich. Both families were German-speaking Mennonites. Both families had moved into separate communities in Germany. This was becoming very interesting.

These Mennonites became the objects of persecution, and so in the spring of 1717 several communities of these folk left Germany. They traveled down the Rhine River to Rotterdam. There they boarded 3 ships and set sail. After a stop in England, they sailed on to America. They arrived in Philadelphia in September of 1717. On those ships were Sylvia’s 5th great grandfather and my 6th great grandfather.

Sylvia’s family moved west into Lancaster County. Mine moved north into the area of the great swamp, where my 6th great grandfather, a bishop in the church, started a church. Sometime later, when the bishop was visiting the community where Sylvia’s family lived, he became ill, passed away and was buried there.

Little did Sylvia or I know when we met in 1957 that our ancestors knew each other 240 years earlier.

Falcons Win! 16 – 6

Tuesday evening, Sylvia and I drove into town to watch our granddaughter, Briana, as her team hosted Portage in water polo. Barbara, her mother, gave us photos of Briana in her team gear.


Before the game, the captains gathered for the meet and greet. Briana is #7.


Early in the first half, Bri had the ball in front of Portage’s goal. With the ball at the full extension of her arm she fired a shot at the goal.


The ball rocketed past the goalie, and Briana slapped the water on her follow through.


The ball hit the back of the net. Another score for the Falcons!


In the second half, I caught this sequence of Briana taking a penalty shot. Sylvia’s Panasonic camera has a burst mode, and I used that to catch the following shots about 0.4 seconds apart. It illustrates the technique for effective shooting. It’s great to watch — especially for her fan club.


She lifts the ball.


Extends her arm.


Rifles in the shot.


With the ball in the back of the net, Briana turns and swims to the other end.


Her parents, Barbara and Bryant, are founders and charter members of her fan club.


You’ll probably see her grandparents, Sylvia and Chuck, at the home games. They really do try to not go totally berserk. Count on their enthusiasm to be sky high in any case. It is okay to pretend you don’t know them . . .

Saturday Song — With Story

I hope you’ll indulge for another week as I present another song performed by Alison Krauss & Union Station. It has a nice laid-back sound and is just the kind of music I love to listen before going to bed.

Gravity caught up with me Thursday evening.

My day had started early with the phone ringing. Sylvia was in the basement doing her morning workout. I was asleep in my recliner, which is where I usually get the last part of my night’s sleep.

The call was from a fellow that was ready to have wireless Internet service installed at his home. It only took a few minutes to record necessary information and schedule a time. The day had begun.

It was a busy day, but there was time to meet our older son for lunch in Grand Rapids. We enjoyed talking about Tuesday’s water polo game. Our granddaughter (team co-captain) had scored the first goal in her team’s winning effort. Go number 7! Throughout the game, she was always on the move, anticipating what would come next and moving to block on defense or to get in scoring position when her team had the ball.

The afternoon flew by as I followed up on sales leads and dropped on a few Entrecards. After dinner I was back in the office listening to an audio book and taking care of a few blogging chores when the phone rang again. It was another Internet service inquiry. My day had started over 12 hours earlier, I was tired, but didn’t care about that.

In the midst of answering the callers questions, I heard a cracking sound. Another followed almost Immediately. I had a sinking feeling. There was a very loud crash as the back legs of the straight-back chair I was sitting on gave way.

I lay on the floor, looking at the ceiling and still in the chair. Pieces of chair lay around me. The computer keyboard and mouse had gone flying. Sylvia said, “Are you okay?” My reply, “Yes, help me with the phone please.” She pushed the cordless phone to me as I readjusted the headset.

I spoke, “Are you still there?” The caller asked, “What was that.” “My chair just broke I’m laying here on my back, but I’m okay. Did you have any other questions?” She did and we continued the conversation for several minutes. When the call had concluded I rolled over, stood up and surveyed the damage.

As it always does, gravity won again.

So, that’s my gravity story for today. I’m okay — just a bit sore from banging down on floor, but okay.

What a Wreck!

This memory is from nearly 60 years ago, and yet it is as fresh as if it had happened yesterday. Those days were hard for many folk. Our nation was recovering from a great war. This is the story of one struggling family, and of their only son.

His bicycle was ruined. Though it had been his pride, Charles didn’t care.



Charles was a wild and unruly child. He truly was untamed. I remember when he came to school — another boy with my first name. We never would be friends. My mother would not approve. His clothes were clean, but worn. His hair was shaggy and long. He was loud and rude. His school grades were not good.

Charles’ family had moved into a tar paper shack, past the cemetery, beside the railroad track on the outskirts of town. Charles, his dad and mom and younger sister lived there in that tiny, humble home.

His father could be seen most days shoveling coal at the railroad siding in town. His bulging arms and strong, broad back were made to unload the coal cars. He’d shovel their load into the sheds along the track. He’d start the day clean, but it wasn’t long before coal dust covered him, clothes and skin and hair. After work his dad would walk to the local tavern. Later, he’d stumble the two miles home to the tiny tar paper shack that sat beside the railroad track.

The family had few earthly goods. But Charles had a bicycle. It was not shiny, nor was it new. It was old, scratched and rusty, but he kept it oiled. He’d jump aboard and away he flew! Fast as the wind. Charles was free! He loved the breeze in his face and hair. With his bike he could ride anywhere.

In the morning, he rode that bike to school. When classes were over, it was back on the bike and ride — around the town and the countryside. Charles was the wind blowing wild and free.

He invented games with his bike. Jumping and racing and looking for adventure he’d go. One day in town he found a new thrill. He raced across the federal highway in front of a car. It was close, but “a miss is as good as a mile.” What a thrill. What a grin. What a rush. He did it again when other would see. They told him, “Don’t do that you’ll get hurt.” Did he listen? He did not!

That fall afternoon, there he was in the center of town with a crowd to watch. He raced his trusty bike in front of a semi-truck. That day, his timing failed. Charles was struck by the semi. I saw his blood stains on the highway.

His bicycle was ruined. Though it had been his pride, Charles didn’t care. Charles had died. He was buried later that week.

Charles rode upon his bike,
He told the world, “Go take a hike.”
Thought he’d race that big ole truck,
But Charles found he had no luck.
He never lived to be a man,
Never sweet love held his hand.
Now Charles sleeps beneath the sod,
I pray he put his faith in God.

Postscript:
Fall soon turned to winter. And in the spring the blood stains were gone from the road. One can only imagine the devastation to that struggling family. Soon after that incident, they moved away from our town and, like the blood stains on the highway, were never seen again.

Mary Baxter Yallup ~ Part 2

On January 14, I posted the story of Mary Baxter Yallup ~ Hero. The story of the wife and mother who triumphed after a great struggle is a compelling one. I was glad for the opportunity to share her story with you, and I thought that it was over. Wrong!

Early this week, I received an e-mail from England. It came from a Peter Yallup — evidently a distant cousin. Can you imagine the excitement that generated? Later, he sent me a copy of an article from the November 6, 1913 Clinton Republican. (It was printed in the next county, and Sylvia is there almost every week to visit her father.) Now we have more of the story. The article tells us what George was doing in America while Mary remained in England. This from that newspaper:

“George Yallup, father of the present generation, was born in Norfolk, England in 1819. His parents having died while he was young, he began working for his living at the age of six. August 14, 1844, he married Mary Baxter. After residing in England for 6 [more] years, Mr Yallup decided to come to America. He would send for his family as soon as possible. His money gave out while in New York, but he obtained work upon a boat bound for Cleveland. In Cleveland, he wrote and informed his family of his whereabouts and a year later went to Oakland county [Michigan] and worked until he had enough money to send for his family. During this time he took up 40 acres of government land, a part of which is now the old homestead, 3 miles south of St. Johns.

Left alone in England, Mrs Yallup supported herself and 4 small children mostly from gleaning in the fields. In making the trip to America the vessel she was on was wrecked. A second ship was driven back to port because of a severe storm. The third time she sailed with better results. On shipboard, Mrs Yallup was very sick with cholera, but finally with her family reached Detroit where they were met by Mr Yallup, who had waited for them in that city for 3 weeks. They came to Bingham Township in a lumber wagon and lived with a neighbor while their home, a log house, was built. Eight children were born to them and with one exception lived to have homes of their own and settled within 5 miles of their parent’s home.”

Now, tell me how bad do we have it today? Really?

George and Mary were the great grandparents of my father-in-law. I am still in awe of their courage and determination. I’m glad they realized their dream. I still think of them whenever we go to visit father-in-law and drive past Yallup Rd.

Finally, thanks to cousin Peter Yallup. I’m so glad to have met you, if only online.

My Valentine

It was more than 50 years ago that I met the most wonderful woman in the world. Later this year, we’ll celebrate our 48th anniversary. Together, we’ve raised two sons, lived in three countries, including a couple of states. It has been a wonderful journey, because we made that trip together.

Sylvia and Chuck — the early years.


Last week as I was surfing the blogosphere, I came across a posting that featured a video of the musical group, Journey, performing “After All These Years.” The words are beautiful. The song ends this way:

After all these years
You stood by me
The days and nights that I was gone
After all these years
You sacrificed, believed in me
And you stood strong
Cause with our love there’s nothing left to fear
After all these years

Thank you Journey.

Thank you Sylvia that you stood by me in the good times and the bad. Thank you that our faith has never wavered. I’m glad you are here with me my love.

My Other Valentine

Roses are red,
Daffodils yellow,
Would you be my gal,
If I’ll be your fellow?

There is a great advantage to having only one granddaughter. She can be, and she is, grandpa’s favorite. Scholar and athlete. This gal is great. I love her.

Her favorite sport is water polo. She’s loved the water since she was a little gal, and with her determination, strength and energy, she does very well.

The above shots were taken during last year’s district tournament. I’m really looking forward to this years season, which starts next month.


In the fall, she is on the swim team. This last season, she was a co-captain.

Is her grandpa proud of her? You can bet your lunch on that and not go hungry!

Happy Valentine’s Day tomorrow.

A Fabulous Honor

I have been given a great honor by a gal who has become a friend. Her name is Jill, and I’ll tell you more about her in a bit.

I had to read her posting three times before I could believe it, but her blog is Jill’s Believe It Or Not. Please understand that the picture on the badge doesn’t look a bit like me — not even a little bit. Well I do have two arms and two legs, a torso, neck and head, but that’s as far as it goes.

The rules are simple. Name five things to which I am addicted. And five Blogs that I think are fabulous.

My Five Addictions:

Family

That starts with my wife of 47 years, Sylvia. She is the center of my world. I think I got in trouble last night, when I told her, “You are just like a bad habit. I couldn’t drop you if I wanted to. And I don’t!” She gave me “the look” until we both dissolved in laughter. She taught me that I have to be comfortable in my own skin before I can build a strong relationship with another person.

Then come our two sons, Bryant and Scott. Scott, the younger, is retired after 21 years in the US Air Force. He explained what he did with these words, “I can tell you exactly what I do Dad, but then I’d have to kill you.” (Do you wonder where he gets that sense of humor?) Sunday evenings I call Scott and we talk on the phone for an hour, and it’s not unusual for us to go for more than three hours. Most weeks we see Bryant at lunch in Grand Rapids. We spend about an hour together catching up on family news and enjoying being together.

Bryant’s wife, Barbara, and daughter, Briana, are frequent topics of our conversations and join us when they can. We love being with them.


Observing Life and Solitary Time

I think it started when I was a youngster. As part of WWII pilot training, my dad had studied weather. We used to go out and watch weather fronts as they moved in. It was fun! Later, I took notice of other things in the sky. The position and changes in the sun, moon and stars. Yet later, it became interesting to watch people and the things they do and say.



It takes time to think about things. I like being creative, and that requires time without distraction. Time alone is like silver and gem stones. Okay, being with family is like gold and diamonds.


Words

I am addicted to words and their usage. That’s why I write haikus and love to blog.


My Toys

These last two came after a discussion with Sylvia. I am addicted to my computers (there are many), radios (not quite as many) and my tractor. Sylvia calls my John Deere a toy, but to me it’s one of the most useful tools I have.


Food

This again came from Sylvia (see my top-most addiction). Her logic? You need it to live. Right? I’ve learned not to argue with a woman — especially if I’m married to her. She also hastened to observe that my favorite food is pernil (garlic roasted pork). Right she is! The picture (above) is of pernil Ecuadorian style. Also on the plate are: potatoes, onion, tomato, parsley, ripe (yellow) plantain, and salsa. Yum. Yum.

Five Fabulous Blogs

Here are my Fab Five:

Clara @ Coming Back to Life — She’s my sister and has helped me get this blog going and to get it known. She’s a real “what you see is what you get” kind of person. Honest, open and, like her brother, just a bit “nerdy.” Gotta love her!

Mikki @ Here’s What Let’s do Next — She’s Clara’s daughter and I enjoy reading about her life and family. She has fought a battle with celiac disease and has been sharing that story. (Makes me glad that my only food allergy is to chicken and turkey.) She’s a bit whacky — wonder where that comes from?

Jill @ Jill’s Believe It Or Not — This gal is very creative and has a wonderful sense of humor. I love reading about and seeing photos of her two charming daughters, Alexa and Gianna. She also has good taste in music.

Ida @ Losing Myself — Ida relates her personal experiences and gives some good advice for folks trying to lose weight. (I’m sure it would be very helpful if I’d only follow it.) Interestingly, she is in a Southern Baptist church. I remember when we moved to Connecticut. I prayed, “Oh Lord, help us find a good church. Please don’t let it be a Southern Baptist Church.” Most of you are wise enough to know that I did the wrong thing. We spent 20 years in Southern Baptist churches (mostly Hispanic). I knew I’d like Ida. She’s another good friend.

The Humor Smith Chronicle — This guy is hilarious! I’m still laughing from his last post when the next one appears. Perhaps I enjoy this so much because I have a certain twist in my personality. Where did you get that picture for “Sway Back?” That’s too good.

There they are. My Fab Five. Thank Jill. Sorry this post is so long, but I had to put all those pictures in. I learned that from Jill. It’s all her fault. 😉

How Quickly They Grow!

It seems just a few weeks ago that Briana was born to our favorite daughter-in-law and our older son. There she was with red hair and brown eyes — just like her daddy. What a wonderful time for our family.

The 3 Bs: Barbara, Briana & Bryant.

Fast forward 16 years, and look what happens to that cute little baby. She’s become a lovely young lady. An excellent scholar and an athlete. She may look thin, but don’t underestimate her strength and stamina. In just a few weeks, water polo season starts again and her parents and grandparents will be watching her. I’ll be shouting as loud as anyone else — maybe louder.

Vacation in Mexico.

Briana, we wish you well and hope you score lots of goals for your team. The whole family is very proud of you. Go number 7! Yea!